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There is nothing wrong with hard work.

 

It’s time to change misconceptions about busy equals success and too busy is the cause of burnout. Over the years I’ve seen the narrative around burnout be reduced and over-simplified.

 

We have been led to believe that doing too much is the cause of burnout.

 

This is not quite accurate. It’s doing too much of the wrong things in the wrong way that doesn’t give time and attention to your mind and body and relationships. Working hard on meaningful goals that allows for self-care and relationships reduces the chances of burnout. When you are working hard in this place, it is actually a very beautiful energising place to be. A sense of mastery and achievement is fundamental for our psychological well-being.

 

What threatens that sense of mastery is the lack of successful experiences. What impacts a lack of successful experiences is a fear of failure, and unrealistic goals and expectations. Also, failure these days can be such a public affair that it intensifies the fear of failure.

 

Fear of failure is complex and often rooted in past emotional experiences. I believe understanding and managing fear of failure is an important aspect of dealing with burnout.

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Success, even in small measures, is a vital component of the learning process. When we repeatedly face failure because our goals and expectations are too high, we start to avoid opportunities to experience success because of a repeated exposure to the feeling of failure. This can lead to a decline in motivation and self-confidence. This creates a negative feedback loop, where the fear of failure leads to avoidance of challenges, further inhibiting skill development and mastery.

 

From a neuroscience standpoint, successful experiences play an important role in how we learn and develop. Research has shown that when we achieve success, even in small tasks, there is an activation of positive neural responses in the brain. These responses are associated with the release of neurotransmitters like dopamine, which not only makes us feel good but also enhances our learning and memory processes. This biological reaction reminds us of the importance of achieving small wins in the pursuit of mastery.

 

Without a sense of mastery, we often find ourselves trapped in a cycle of perceived or real failure and frustration. This cycle is detrimental to personal and professional growth. A lack of mastery not only affects our ability to perform tasks effectively but also impacts our psychological wellbeing, leading to feelings of inadequacy and a diminished sense of purpose. Research repeatedly demonstrates that a sense of purpose acts as a buffer against burnout.

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Addressing burnout is not about doing less, it’s about creating a life that includes personal meaning, self-care, positive relationships and growth.